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Saturday, August 23 2025

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How to Thrive in God’s Promises

Life can feel overwhelming when we face trials, delays, or unanswered prayers. Yet, as believers, we are not called just to survive—we are called to thrive in the promises of God. His Word reminds us in 2 Corinthians 1:20: “For all the promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through us.” But how do we thrive in those promises when life tells a different story?

We must remember that the promises of God are the ammunition, the fuel that keeps us going even when the situations in our lives don’t look good. God will keep His promises even when it makes us uncomfortable. As with the Apostle Paul, when he was converted. God had sent Ananias to minister to Saul, who had become blind on the road to Damascus. In sharing his concern for meeting this notable persecutor of the Christians, God said to Ananias, “Go thy way: for he is a chosen vessel unto me, to bear my name before the gentiles and kings, and the children of Israel: For I will shew him how great things he must suffer for my name’s sake” (Acts 9:15-16).

So, when Paul became afflicted with a thorn in his side, he said he prayed to God three times to remove it, but God had promised that he must suffer many things and had to keep that promise. However, God promised him grace sufficient to bear the thorn (2 Corinthians 12:7-9). To the point where he testifies “therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong” (vs.10).

The promises of God are “yes” and ‘Amen.”

It is important that we:

1. Know What God Has Promised Us: God’s promises are our foundation. Thriving starts with knowing His Word and understanding the covenant truths He has spoken. When you know His promises, you stand on them with confidence instead of being shaken by fear or uncertainty.  Taking time daily to meditate on the Scriptures that speak to our situations builds our belief system in God that He can and will keep his promises.

2. Believe Beyond What You See: Faith thrives where sight ends. Abraham believed God even when the odds were against him (Romans 4:20–21). Thriving in God’s promises means choosing to trust His word over your present circumstances. We must ask ourselves, Am I looking at my problem, or am I looking at God’s power?

3. Walk in Obedience: Many of God’s promises are tied to obedience (Deuteronomy 28:1–2). Thriving means staying in alignment with His will. Even small acts of obedience position you to experience the fullness of His blessings. Delayed obedience often delays fulfillment. We must therefore choose to say “yes” at all times.

4. Be Patient in the Process: God’s timing is perfect (Habakkuk 2:3). Thriving is not always about immediate results but about growing while you wait. Just like a seed needs time to break through the soil, God’s promises often require seasons of preparation. Remember, however, the waiting season is never wasted, it shapes us for the promise.

5. Declare What God Has Spoken: Your words carry power (Proverbs 18:21). Thriving means not only believing God’s promises but also declaring them. Speak His Word over your family, health, finances, and future. We are not to just read His promises, but proclaim them until they manifest.

6. Guard Against Doubt: The enemy loves to plant seeds of doubt and fear. But God calls us to stand firm in faith. When doubt knocks, answer with the truth of God’s Word. We must feed our faith and starve our doubts.

7. Celebrate the Fulfillment: When God’s promises come to pass, don’t forget to give Him glory. Share your testimony, it will strengthen others who are still waiting (Psalm 126:3). Our story could be the encouragement someone else needs.

To thrive in God’s promises is to live anchored in faith, walking in obedience, patiently trusting His timing, and boldly declaring His Word. God’s promises are not just for survival, they are for you to flourish. For it is in the promises of God that we achieve success.

So today, hold on, believe, and thrive in what He has spoken over your life. His promises are Yes and Amen!

Friday, August 22 2025

THRIVING IN 2025 – 07/20/25

GO & HARVEST THE OVERLOAD

The emphasis in the word this week was in thriving in 2025, one must seek to pursue and harvest souls for Jesus Christ. It’s about striving to be disciples of Jesus Christ and thriving in the harvesting of souls.

Being a Disciple of Jesus is not just about being a believer but a follower, one who learns, imitates, and obeys Christ. They must have a relationship with Jesus abiding in Him according to John 15:5, walk in obedience to His Word which tells us “If you continue in my word, you are truly my disciples…”, according to John 8:31.

  1. Denying Self – Luke 9:23 (Take up your cross daily and follow Him.)
  2. Love for Others – John 13:35 (“By this everyone will know you are my disciples, if you love one another.”)
  3. Fruit-bearing life – Galatians 5:22–23 (Living by the Spirit produces visible fruit.)

Jesus’ last command was not only to follow Him but to make disciples (Matthew 28:19–20). Making disciples embodies: Evangelizing – Sharing the Gospel (Romans 10:14), Teaching – Helping others grow in the Word and faith (2 Timothy 2:2), Modeling the disciples of Jesus – Living as an example others can follow (1 Corinthians 11:1), Mentoring – Walking alongside others in their journey (Acts 18:24–26), Multiplying – Disciples who make disciples create a spiritual legacy.

In other words, one must first be a disciple before they can make disciples. You can’t lead others where you haven’t gone yourself. Start where you are, with your family, friends, neighbors, and coworkers. Use intentional relationships like coffee meetups, bible study, prayer calls, mentorship and always point people back to Jesus, not yourself.

Your past experiences, both good and painful, can become a powerful testimony to draw others to Christ. Revelation 12:11 tells us “They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony…,” while 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 God comforts us so we can comfort others with the same comfort we received.

In so doing we must be real and transparent. Never try to polish your past, simply share it authentically. People connect with real struggles, not perfect stories. For example: “I once struggled with fear, but Jesus gave me peace.”

Secondly, show the before and after of your life in Christ. Paint a picture of your life before Christ, what led you to Him, and how He transformed you. Before we were broken, searching and hurt. Then share your encounter with Jesus about what God did in your life. Finally share your new hope, healing and purpose.

Thirdly, always shift the focus from you to Jesus. Your story is the bridge, but the goal is Christ. For example, “I couldn’t change myself, but Jesus gave me a new heart.” Use scripture to anchor your story. Connect your experience to God’s Word. For example, if you overcame addiction reference John 8:36 which tells us, “Whom the Son sets free is free indeed.” If you found healing reference, Isaiah 53:5 which tells us, “By His stripes we are healed”.

Fourthly, it is important to know Your Audience, to whom you are witnessing. Adapt your testimony to the person or group you’re speaking to, whether it is to a hurting friend by emphasizing God’s comfort, or to a skeptic, by highlighting God’s power to change lives.

In today’s age the method of witnessing is vast. It can be done one-on-one conversations social media posts, small group bible study, outreach evangelism, to name a few. However, if it is done, it is always best to keep it simple and short.

Matthew 9:36 helps us understand our place in harvesting souls for Christ for it says, “When He (Jesus) saw the crowds, He had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd” (Matthew 9:36, NIV). This verse actually reveals to us Jesus’ vision of the crowd, His compassion for their condition. However, He continues in verse 37 to show us that He was not to be the only one harvesting souls but every disciple has a place in it too for He said, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.”

This verse shows us that we are called to be laborers, we must pray for more workers, pray to have Jesus’ eyes & heart and recognizing that we are Shepherd-helpers.

Saturday, July 12 2025

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I Want to Thrive: (Strive 2 Thrive)

As we journey through 2025, many of us have whispered this silent but sacred prayer: “Lord, I want to thrive.” Not just to survive the chaos, but truly thrive, in our faith, finances, family, health, and purpose. But what happens when it seems like nothing is changing, when the breakthrough is delayed, the promise feels distant, and progress is invisible? This week’s message encouraged us into resilience, faith, and intentional living across various areas of our lives, even when progress isn't immediately visible. As we Strive 2 Thrive, let’s hold fast to the words of the Apostle Peter, “But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be glory both now and forever. Amen” (KJV).

That’s when we strive to thrive.

1. Thrive Spiritually — Even When It's Dry

We may not always feel the fire, but our faith is not based on feelings — it’s anchored in truth.
In 2025, thriving spiritually means choosing consistency over emotion:

  • Praying even when heaven seems silent.
  • Reading Scripture even when it feels routine.
  • Worshiping even through weariness.

Galatians 6:9 reminds us: “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”

2. Thrive Emotionally — Even in Waiting

Waiting is one of the hardest parts of thriving. God never promised we wouldn’t have pain, but He did promise purpose in it.
This year, choose to:

  • Speak life over yourself.
  • Let go of shame, guilt, and unworthiness.
  • Seek healing, therapy, and godly counsel when needed.

You don’t have to feel whole to start healing. Start where you are. Thrive anyway.

3. Thrive in Purpose — Even in Uncertainty

Your calling still matters, even if doors haven’t opened yet.
God sees every seed you’ve sown in obscurity.
Every act of obedience. Every hidden prayer. Every unseen sacrifice.

In 2025, strive to thrive in your purpose by:

  • Refining your gifts.
  • Serving faithfully in small things.
  • Writing the vision even when there’s no platform yet.

The harvest is coming.

4. Thrive in Finances — Even in Lack

You may not have overflow right now, but you can still walk in stewardship.

  • Budget wisely.
  • Sow generously.
  • Speak abundance and not fear.

Thriving financially begins in the heart, believing God is your source, not just your job.

5. Thrive in Relationships — Even After Disappointments

Some of us are still healing from betrayal, heartbreak, or loss. But thriving in relationships means choosing hope over isolation:

  • Rebuilding trust slowly.
  • Setting healthy boundaries.
  • Cultivating God-centered connections.

Don’t let past pain rob you of future joy.

Don’t Quit Just Because You Don’t See It Yet

God is doing a deep work underground before He reveals the fruit. Just because you don’t see the full bloom yet, doesn’t mean the seed isn’t growing. So, in 2025, make this your declaration:

“I will thrive in every area of my life — by faith, with intention, and through grace. I will not give up just because I don’t see it yet. I choose to strive, to hope, and to trust God for the harvest to come.”

Keep going. You were made to thrive.

Blessings!

Saturday, June 21 2025

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God’s Plan for the Man as Head of His Household

This year’s celebration of Father’s Day served as a reminder of the Divine and significant role of Fathers in every home and walk of life. I was particularly enamored by the message brought to my church by our guest speaker for the Tribe of The Fathers celebration, Pastor Derrick Boseman, and his beautiful wife, First Lady Trista Boseman.

Pastor Boseman set the scene of his message from the book of Genesis 18 with particular emphasis on verse 19, where God expressed His confidence in Abraham as a leading father, when He said,

 For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgment; that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him” (KJV).

“For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what he has promised him” (NIV).

This 18th chapter of Genesis finds Abraham enjoying intimate fellowship with the Lord near the oaks of Mamre. As the heavenly visitors rise to leave, God pauses to reveal His intentions about Sodom, and, in the process, unveils why He trusts Abraham with such weighty knowledge, but this single verse compresses God’s blueprint for his headship in four interlocking focuses:

  1. Divine Selection: Leadership Begins with Calling. The Lord said, “I have chosen him…”

Abraham was hand-picked by God Himself to be the head of this special family that would impact the world. We see, therefore, that headship isn’t a cultural accident, but rather it’s a divine appointment. God singles out Abraham not for privilege but for responsibility. Likewise, every husband and father is chosen and entrusted with a sacred stewardship over those within his care. The Apostle Paul to the Corinthians gives us a vivid picture of God’s designed order of the family when he said, “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God,” (1 Cor 11:3 KJV).

Abraham’s obedience to God’s call on his life, teaches us, in particular fathers, that headship starts with accepting that leadership at home and that it is God-given, not self-appointed or culturally imposed.

  1. Direction: Vision That Shapes Generations. God did not only give Abraham the

responsibility to his seed but authority to command his household, or direct them as the NIV indicates, in a specific manner. “…so that he will direct his children and his household after him…” The Hebrew term for “direct” (??wâ) carries the idea of commanding, instructing, and setting a clear course. A godly man supplies more than provision, he supplies vision, charting a path toward God’s purposes for his family.

  1. Discipleship: Teaching “the Way of the Lord.” God’s plan for the father of nations was

“…to keep the way of the Lord…” down throughout his generations. Headship is not authoritarian control, it is discipleship. Abraham’s primary subject matter is “the way of the LORD,” God’s character, promises, and commands. New-covenant fathers echo this by pointing their children to Christ, who is “the way” (Jn 14:6), establishing regular times of family Scripture reading and prayer (Deut. 6:6-9), casting the vision for their household’s future, spiritual, relational, and financial, by aligning decisions with biblical convictions.

     d. Justice & Righteousness: The Ethics of Headship. “…by doing what is right and just…”
Biblical leadership is inherently ethical. A man’s influence is authenticated by integrity, equity, and compassion, traits Abraham demonstrated in his intercession for Sodom (Gen 18:22-33).

     e. Promise: Obedience Attracts Fulfillment. “… so that the Lord will bring about for

Abraham, what He has promised him.” Headship is goal-oriented for it aims at seeing God’s promises realized across generations (Prov 13:22). God ties the fulfillment of covenant blessings to Abraham’s faithful fathering. Likewise, a man’s obedience paves a runway for divine favor over his descendants.

As I examine God’s intent for Abraham as the father of all nations, it is clear that God set the blueprint for all fathers down throughout the ages. Fathers have that divine responsibility and authority to command or direct the course for their children and family as a whole. But as Pastor Boseman intimated, the wife or mother must be mindful of their responsibility alongside their husbands and not get caught up in the misrepresentation of the liberation movement, which is destroying families. So very often, we walk away from the guidance of Almighty God and hold fast to the direction of society, which is contrary to the will of God. Pastor Boseman emphasized that “there has to be a change in our households for our people to get to the point that God is trying to take us to.”

Interestingly, he was very candid when he said that even as we complain about our children, we must recognize that they are a reflection of us as parents. God made a covenant with Abraham, and He trusted him as He trusts every parent ever since to act right in the private areas of their lives. Clearly, there is a clarion call for fathers and mothers to internalize the responsibility God mandated for families. Genesis 18:19 reminds us that headship is less about status and more about stewardship. The man who embraces God’s plan becomes a conduit through which covenant blessings flow, impacting children, grandchildren, and entire communities. Fathers and husbands lead on purpose, lead under God’s promise.

 A Prayer for Husbands & Fathers

Father, thank You for choosing me to lead my household. Empower me by Your Spirit to direct my family in Your ways, to walk in justice and righteousness, and to steward every promise You’ve spoken over us. Let my leadership reflect Christ’s love, so that generations after me will know and glorify You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Saturday, June 07 2025

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In the world of sports, the term G.O.A.T., short for Greatest Of All Time, is a coveted title. It’s reserved for legends, those whose skill, dominance, and legacy have left an indelible mark on their sport. Michael Jordan in basketball. Serena Williams in tennis. Tom Brady in football. Usain Bolt in Track. Muhammad Ali in boxing. Simone Biles in gymnastics. Pele and in Soccer. Ruth in Baseball. These names are etched in history books, praised by analysts, and revered by fans. They broke records, raised standards, and redefined greatness.

But as believers, we are called to consider a different standard. One that transcends stats, trophies, and human applause. If we look at the title “G.O.A.T..” through a spiritual lens, there is one who stands unmatched: Jesus Christ, the true and ultimate Greatest of all time.

Every earthly G.O.A.T. paid a price, grueling hours of training, immense discipline, overcoming setbacks, and battling critics. Their greatness came with scars. But Jesus paid the ultimate price. He didn't just train for a title, He laid down His life and not for himself but for the entire world. Isaiah 53:5 says, “But He was pierced for our transgressions, He was crushed for our iniquities…” His greatness was not in performance, but in sacrifice. While athletes strive for medals, Jesus embraced a cross that had no glory for Him but redemption for others.

Earthly champions boast impressive stats as in points per game, medals won, and records broken. But the greatness of Christ isn’t measured in number of medals or accolades garnered, but rather His greatness is measured in lives transformed.

  • He healed the sick (Matthew 4:24).
  • He forgave sins (Mark 2:5-12).
  • He raised the dead (John 11:43-44).
  • He conquered death itself (1 Corinthians 15:55-57).

No stat line can capture the eternal impact of Jesus. His scoreboard isn’t found in arenas, but rather it’s written in the Book of Life.

The Legacy of Greatness

Great athletes inspire millions. Their stories of resilience and excellence spark passion across generations. But Jesus didn’t just influence history, He split it in two (B.C. and A.D.). His message reached beyond stadiums into every nation, tribe, and tongue. His teachings have shaped governments, laws, moral codes, and human hearts for over 2,000 years. And while earthly G.O.A.T.s eventually fade from the spotlight as new G.O.A.T.s emerge over time, Jesus remains on the throne of His Greatness, unchallenged and eternal.

Athletes win crowns made of gold and silver, only to fade with time. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 9:25, “They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever.” Jesus wore a crown of thorns so that we could wear crowns of righteousness (2 Timothy 4:8). He gave up glory so we could share in His.

Faith Nugget

In a world that defines greatness by fame, wealth, and accomplishment, Jesus flips the script. His definition of greatness isn’t about being served, but about serving (Matthew 20:26-28). And through His life, death, and resurrection, He opens the door for us, not just to be saved, but to walk in true spiritual greatness.

Yes, and that Greatness is a quality inherited by believers who have been adopted into the family of God, simply because through Jesus, we’re not just improved, we are reborn. Created anew in His image, with His Spirit dwelling in us, we are made new in Christ, where true greatness begins with transformation according to 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV), which tells us, “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

Secondly, as believers, we inherit Christ's Greatness because we receive Kingdom Identity. Romans 8:16-17 (NIV),  informs us that “The Spirit himself testifies… that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs, heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ...”

As co-heirs with Christ, we share in His glory. We are royalty in the Kingdom of God, not because of pedigree, but because of grace. Our identity as sons and daughters of God makes us eternally significant.

Thirdly, we are empowered to do greater works. John 14:12 (NIV) reminds us that,
“Whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these…” Therefore, through the Holy Spirit, believers are empowered to heal, preach, love, forgive, and transform the world around them, just like Jesus did. His greatness flows through us.

Fourthly, we become great by serving according to Matthew 23:11 (NIV), which expressly tells us that, “The greatest among you will be your servant. ”In the Kingdom of God, humility is the path to greatness. Serving others with love, selflessness, and compassion reflects Christ’s heart and makes us great in His eyes. Not to mention the fact that we are crowned with eternal glory. The Apostle Paul testifies of this to Timothy when he said, “I have fought the good fight… there is in store for me the crown of righteousness...”2 Timothy 4:7-8 (NIV). Earthly fame fades, but eternal reward remains. In Christ, our greatness is sealed in heaven, crowned by righteousness and rewarded with glory that never perishes. In Christ, we are not just saved, we are elevated. Through Jesus Christ, we are called, justified, and ultimately glorified (Romans 8:30). That is true greatness, not according to man, but according to God.

So Who is the Real G.O.A.T.?

While we can admire sports champions and applaud their feats, let’s never forget, Jesus Christ is the G.O.A.T. above all G.O.A.T.s. His greatness isn’t limited to a game, a season, or even a lifetime. His greatness is eternal, redemptive, and unmatched.

When the final whistle blows, and the trophies tarnish, only one name will stand, Jesus, the Name above all names (Philippians 2:9-11), and according to Revelation 1:8 (NIV),
“I am the Alpha and the Omega,” says the Lord God, “who is, and who was, and who is to come, the Almighty.” No athlete or leader can claim that they begin and end. Jesus spans all of time.

Jesus is supreme above Muhammad Ali, Jordan, Brady, Mays, Ruth, Pele, Maradona, or Bolt. He is, “The Son is the radiance of God’s glory... he sat down at the right hand of the Majesty in heaven. So he became as much superior to the angels…” Hebrews 1:3-4 (NIV). Heaven itself declared His greatness according to Revelation 5:12 (NIV), which tells us, “Worthy is the Lamb, who was slain, to receive power and wealth and wisdom and strength and honor and glory and praise!”

We as believers, therefore as heirs of His greatness, do not have to work to be great because we are already great, even if our lives do not yet manifest that greatness. Recognizing our greatness in and through Christ sets us on a path to achieving that greatness to bring glory and honor to Him.

As Jesus Christ is Great, so are we His disciples Great!

Blessings!

Sunday, June 01 2025

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There is something beautifully humbling about admitting, “God is working on me.” It is a statement of surrender, of spiritual awareness, and of hope. It acknowledges that we are not perfect, but we are not without purpose. We are on the Potter’s wheel, being molded, refined, and shaped by the Master’s hands. God is the Potter and we are the clay in His hands, as spoken by the prophet Isaiah, “But now, O Lord, thou art our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of thy hand” Isaiah 64:8.

Being in the hands of God is an ongoing process of transformation, and transformation is not a one-time event. It is a lifelong journey. When we surrender our lives to Christ, the Holy Spirit begins the sanctifying work of making us more like Jesus. This process involves pruning, stretching, and renewing. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s always purposeful. The Apostle Paul tells us, "And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory..."  2 Corinthians 3:18 (NIV).

God is not simply interested in behavior modification, He desires heart transformation. He doesn’t just want to clean the outside of the cup, but He’s purifying the inside. That means confronting attitudes, healing wounds, and changing mindsets.

When We Don’t Feel Ready or Worthy

There are days when I feel like I’ve failed, fallen short, or missed the mark. In those moments, I remind myself that God is not finished with me. He sees the end from the beginning. What looks like a mess in my eyes is a masterpiece in progress through His.

Even when I feel unworthy or unusable, God’s grace whispers to me, “I’m not done with you yet.” He chooses the weak to show His strength. He chooses the broken to reveal His glory. And He chooses you and me, flawed, yet deeply loved, to carry His light, and so we understand when the Apostle Paul tells us, "Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion..."  Philippians 1:6, that God is still working on us. There is no need to become frustrated with ourselves, only to commit and submit to His working process in and through us.

The Process Matters

We often pray for the promise but resist the process. Yet, it is in the process that character is built. Faith is stretched. Trust is deepened. God doesn’t waste anything, not even our struggles. Every lesson, every detour, every delay is part of His divine construction plan. Sometimes, the process feels slow. Sometimes we don’t see progress. But rest assured, God is working behind the scenes, even when we don’t feel it. As the song “Way Maker” by Leeland and others says, ‘Even when you don’t feel it, He’s working; even when you don’t see it, He’s working; He never stops, He never stops working.’ He’s aligning things, healing things, and preparing things that we don’t yet understand.

Wherever you are in your journey, take heart. You are not behind. You are not disqualified. You are simply “in progress.” Let that bring you peace. Let it remind you that your story is still being written by the Author of all things good. God is working on you, so keep walking, keep trusting, and keep growing

A Prayer for Growth Process

Lord, thank You for not giving up on me. Thank you for continuing to shape me even when I resist. Help me to trust the process and rest in Your timing. Give me the grace to grow and the strength to stay faithful, knowing that You are working all things together for my good. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Blessings!

Saturday, May 17 2025

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The celebration of Mothers comes one day in every year, but is a mother a mother for only one day? How many mothers can attest to the fact that they cannot recall a day as a mother when they were allowed to take one day off from that role. Even if as mothers, we wanted to, there was always a reason why we had to slip right back into it with ease. The sacred call of motherhood is a divine design. Yes, the Lord did tell the prophet Jeremiah, “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations” Jeremiah 1:5 KJV. Mothers are ordained mothers before they are even formed in the womb. How do you walk away from what you were ordained and sanctified to be? Hence the natural nurturing ability of mothers without a handbook.

The Proverbs tells us, “Her children rise up and call her blessed…” Proverbs 31:28 (ESV). Motherhood is more than a biological connection, it is a divine assignment, a sacred trust from God. From the Garden of Eden to the foot of the Cross, where we witnessed the powerful, prayerful presence of mothers shaping generations.

Motherhood begins with God’s design. Eve, the first mother, was given a name that reflected life and legacy. Adam “…called his wife’s name Eve, because she was the mother of all living” Genesis 3:20 (ESV). Motherhood was never an afterthought, it was a vital part of God's redemptive plan, and every mother carries within her the ability to influence eternity through the children she nurtures, whether she recognizes it and operates in it or not.

The nurturing, comforting love of a mother gives us a glimpse into the heart of God. Her embrace carries healing, and her words speak wisdom. In her presence, children feel the security that reflects the arms of the Father. A mother of faith shapes the future as in Jochebed, the mother of Moses, risked her life to protect her child. Her faith preserved a deliverer for God’s people. Mothers are often the first intercessors and protectors of destiny, praying in secret what heaven reveals in power. The Hebrews writer reminds us that “By faith Moses, when he was born, was hidden for three months by his parents…” Hebrews 11:23 (ESV).

God entrusted parents, especially mothers, with the early spiritual education of children. The home is the first pulpit, and a mother’s lap is the first classroom. Through lullabies, scriptures, and discipline, she lays the foundation for a godly life. Her reward is that “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her” Proverbs 31:28 (ESV).

A godly mother leaves a legacy that outlives her. Her prayers echo in the corridors of time. Her sacrifices become stories told to future generations. Her faith is her children’s inheritance. Motherhood is not easy, but it is holy. Whether biological, adoptive, or spiritual, a mother’s influence is profound. She is a builder of souls, a keeper of covenants, and a vessel of divine love. To every mother reading this blog, your calling is eternal, and your impact is immeasurable.

Motherhood is such a divine office, yet so many count it as menial and unimportant. Society relegates it to menial work because it doesn’t come with a degree, certificate, or influence. Motherhood comes with so much self-sacrifice that the mother operates in the background, in obscurity, and quietly. But every Mother must recognize and understand that they are the bedrock of society, the very society that belittles or overlooks them. It is out of Motherhood that societies and our world are formed, cultures survive, and belief systems are instilled that create the flavor that binds us together under the umbrella of our divine Father.

Salute to Motherhood. Keep loving. Keep praying. Keep sowing because Heaven sees you.

Blessings!

Friday, May 09 2025

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This week, as we look further into Fixing My Eyes On Jesus, we are taking note that we cannot Ignore Satan, for he is real. In simpler terms, we cannot be so heavenly-minded that we forget that we have an enemy to contend with daily. The Apostle Peter tells us clearly, Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour” 1 Peter 5:8 (NKJV).

We live in a world that often treats Satan like a myth, a cartoon villain, or a symbolic figure of evil. But the Scripture is clear, Satan is not a metaphor, he is real, strategic, cunning, and relentless. To ignore his presence is to walk blindfolded through a battlefield. To be complacent in our walk with God, is to be caught unawares by Satan, our enemy, wounded on the battlefield. It is because of our spiritual walk that we need to be ever conscious of Satan our enemy.

Too many believers fall into spiritual complacency, thinking that if they don’t bother the devil, he won’t bother them. But the Word of God paints a very different picture. Jesus Himself encountered Satan in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11), and He didn’t dismiss him, He confronted him with truth. If the Son of God had to resist the enemy, how much more do we, and therefore must stay alert?

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The enemy’s greatest tactic is deception. In John 8:44, Jesus called Satan “the father of lies.” He doesn’t come waving red flags, he comes subtly, sowing doubt, fear, division, deception, and compromise. Ignoring him only gives him room to operate unchecked in our lives, our homes, and even our churches. Most importantly, Satan appears and approaches us through our friends, family and loved ones. Those whom we lease expect and are very close to us. Can you recall Jesus having to tell Peter who was very close to him, “Get thee behind me, Satan, thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men?” Matthew 16:23.

Staying Sober and Vigilant Wins Battles

1 Peter 5:8 is not a suggestion but rather a command. To be sober means to remain clear-minded. To be vigilant means to be watchful and alert. The enemy is likened to a roaring lion, not because he has real power over God’s people, but because he seeks to intimidate, isolate, and destroy anyone who lets down their guard. A roaring lion is not laying idly by but rather on the prowl, has identified its prey and is on a charge of attack to devour and annihilate its enemy. As Satan is our enemy, so are we his enemy and there is no love lost between us. As participants of this spiritual warfare, we must stay sober, we must stay vigilant.

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We are called not to fear Satan but to recognize him. Ephesians 6:11 urges us to “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.” The battle is spiritual, but the victory is already secured in Christ. Still, awareness is our responsibility.

Yes, Jesus has overcome the war with the enemy, but it is our responsibility to resist the enemy and not be engaged in his ploys or found sleeping. James made it quite clear when he encouraged us with a battle plan to “Submit [ourselves] therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7). Ignoring Satan is not resistance. Silence is not submission to God. We must stand, speak, and live in the authority of Jesus Christ. We have been equipped for the battle, we just have to adorn ourselves at all times in our armor like faithful soldiers of the Cross of Jesus Christ boldly, vigilantly, and soberly.

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To resist the devil, we must:

  • Stay in prayer (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
  • Stay in the Word (Psalm 119:11)
  • Stay connected to the body of Christ (Hebrews 10:25)
  • Stay obedient to God (John 14:15)

For Satan is real, but he is not sovereign. He is a defeated foe, yet still dangerous to the unaware. Let us not be found sleeping while the enemy is working. Be awake. Be armed. Be anchored in Christ. Because while Satan roars like a lion, for he is not a lion, our Savior reigns.

BLESSINGS!

Friday, May 02 2025

Fix My Eyes on Jesus

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"Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God"  Hebrews 12:2 (KJV).

In a world filled with constant distractions, shifting priorities, and unexpected storms, the instruction found in Hebrews 12:2 is more than a suggestion — it is a life-preserving command. “Looking unto Jesus,” the writer declares, not just as a momentary glance, but as a continuous, unwavering focus. Even as I reminisce on this text, I am reminded of Colossians 3: 1-3, which tell us, “If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. Set your affections on thing above, not on things on the earth. For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.”

To keep our eyes on Jesus, to set our affections on things above, means to center our thoughts, affections, and trust on Him regardless of what surrounds us. Life throws trials, disappointments, delays, and even blessings that can turn our gaze away from Christ. But in every season of our lives, whether painful or pleasant, Jesus is our true North.

The Author and Finisher

Jesus is the Author, the One who began our faith journey. He is also the Finisher, the One who completes it. We often begin with excitement, passion, and determination, but we must remember that it is Christ who sustains us from start to finish. He doesn’t just launch our faith; He perfects and matures it.

This truth frees us from striving to "keep it all together." Our job is not to fix ourselves but to fix our eyes on the One who holds our destiny. Hebrews 12:2 reminds us that Jesus endured the cross because of the joy that was set before Him. He saw beyond the pain, beyond the shame, and beyond the temporary suffering. His focus was on eternal glory, that joy of reconciling humanity to God.

This perspective is critical. When we suffer, we are tempted to lower our gaze, to look at our pain, our critics, or our confusion. But when we lift our eyes to Jesus, we begin to see with eternity in view. Like Peter walking on water, it’s only when our eyes are fixed on Jesus that we stay afloat, we keep waking, and we keep standing. When we look away, we sink into fear.

Practical Ways to Keep Your Eyes on Jesus

  1. Daily Devotion – Begin each day with His Word. Let Scripture reset your focus.
  2. Worship Often – Worship shifts the atmosphere and realigns your heart.
  3. Pray Continuously – Prayer is your lifeline. It keeps the connection alive.
  4. Limit Distractions – Turn down the noise of social media, news, and negativity.
  5. Walk in Community – Surround yourself with people who will point you to Jesus, and who are of like passion.

This request to keep our eyes on the Lord, is not an insurmountable request. Do you recall Jesus himself praying for His followers? He said to the Father, “I pray for them: I pray not for the world, but for them which thou hast given me; for they are thine.  And all mine are thine, and thine are mine; and I am glorified in them… Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am; that they may behold my glory, which thou hast given me: for thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world” (John 17: 9-24 KJV). As believers, we can only fulfill the desire of the Lord for us by keeping our eyes fixed upon Him.

Keeping your eyes on Jesus doesn’t mean ignoring our problems or our life’s challenges, it means choosing to see them through the lens of Christ’s victory. The cross was not the end for Jesus, and our trials are not the end for us. He is seated at the right hand of the throne of God the Father, reigning, victorious, and interceding for us.

So today, and every day, let us choose to lift our eyes. Jesus hasn’t moved. He is faithful. He is near, and He is worth looking to.

Blessings

Saturday, April 26 2025

I MUST RESPOND 2 THE CALL

There comes a time in every person’s life when the noise of the world quiets just enough for the soul to hear something deeper, something divine. It may not come with fireworks or thunder from heaven. It may be a whisper. A stirring. A weight on your heart that refuses to lift. And in that moment, you realize that this isn’t just a feeling. It’s a call. It’s a call as described by the prophet Isaiah, “And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, ‘This is the way, walk in it,’ when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left” Isaiah 30:21 (ESV).

Not just any call—but your call.

We often go about our days busy with responsibilities, caught up in routines, and chasing what the world says we should pursue. But then something shifts. God taps your shoulder. He speaks to your spirit. He reminds you that you were made for more, for purpose, for impact, for His glory. The Apostle Paul tells us “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do” Ephesians 2:10 (NIV).

And now, you’re faced with a decision: Will you answer?

For me, the call was persistent and early. It showed up in my quiet moments, when I was alone with my thoughts. It echoed in sermons, conversations, songs, and even dreams. The same message kept returning: “I want to use you.” Not because I was perfect or qualified, but because I was willing. Because as I understood it, God knew if willing, I would be impactful for and to His purpose and plan for His Kingdom. At the time I didn’t believe it, I didn’t think I was qualified, I didn’t think I would be able to stand before anyone and sing or speak. Like Moses and Jeremiah, I had to be repeatedly encouraged before I answered the call, and the first time God showed me His help in what I was doing, there was no turning back. The Apostle correctly told the believers at Corinth, “But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong” 1 Corinthians 1:27 (NIV). God knows that with His power and anointing, we can do all and anything He asks of us or calls us into.

Responding to the call isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about surrender. It’s about saying “yes” even when your voice shakes. It’s about trusting that if God called you, He will equip you. Didn’t the Apostle Paul encouraged the Thessalonians when he said, “The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it” 1 Thessalonians 5:24 (NIV)?

The Invitation Cannot Be Ignored

Jesus tells a parable in Matthew 22 that perfectly mirrors the urgency of this message. It commences with, "Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: ‘The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet, but they refused to come.”

This story reminds us that God’s call is an invitation to something holy—a place in His Kingdom, a role in His purpose. But just like those in the parable, people often reject or delay their response to the invitation. They choose comfort over calling. Busyness over obedience. Fear over faith.

Let us not be among those who refuse to come. The invitation is still open. And our yes matters, not just for us, but for the lives God has ordained us to touch.

Maybe your call is to pray.
To teach.
To write.
To serve.
To start something new.
To return to something old.

Whatever it is, it won’t let you go until you respond. The Lord told Jeremiah in no uncertain terms, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations” Jeremiah 1:5 (NIV). Not to mention His declaration of us in Jeremiah 29:11 when He said, “I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.” God is a God of purpose. He is intentional when He calls us, and we must therefore respond to the call upon our lives. Saying YES to His invitation cements our destiny not only in this life but also in the life to come.

Here’s what I’ve learned, when you say yes to God’s call, doors begin to open. Strength you didn’t know you had begins to rise. Peace settles in your spirit. You’re not chasing anymore, you’re walking in purpose. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight” Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV).

So today, I declare: I MUST RESPOND 2 THE CALL.

Not tomorrow.
Not when it’s convenient.
Not when I feel “ready,” but Now.

Because the call isn’t just about me, it’s about the lives I’m meant to reach, the prayers I’m meant to pray, the light I’m meant to shine. Delaying the call delays the blessing, not just for me, but for others connected to my obedience. Let us reflect on Esther, “For such a time as this…” Esther 4:14 (NIV).

If you’ve been feeling that tug, I encourage you: don’t ignore it. Don’t push it aside. Lean in. Ask God for clarity. And then move. Even if it’s just one step. You don’t have to have all the answers. You just have to be available. Make yourself available. What did the prophet Isaiah say? “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?’ And I said, ‘Here am I. Send me!” Isaiah 6:8 (NIV).

Respond to the call. There’s purpose waiting on the other side.


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